Lift up your wings and FLY...

" People generally see
what they look for and 
hear what they listen for."
 -Harper Lee,  To Kill A Mockingbird

April 25, 2014

Dear Walden Colleagues,

The past 16 weeks can be compared to the process of metamorphosis. A cycle of change that starts as a tiny egg- changes into a caterpillar with any where from 0-16 legs. A caterpillar that sheds it's skin and grows and grows- that soon settles into a quiet space of contemplation- only to hatch with six legs and a pair of colorful wings. Wings to fly...

To record all that I learned would take another 16 weeks to write. Nevertheless, what I connected most to in this course is families.  The importance of family perspectives and developing a symbiotic relationship.  

Another area that I related to is biases. There are biases all around me. I am surrounded by biases. Perhaps, I thrive and survive because of these beliefs.  Nevertheless, I give myself a check up when needed. Sometimes that can be scary.  : )

I was surprised to find that I did not see biases as a barrier before this class. I like the idea of questioning my biases,  and I know that it takes time and patience to be able to share a common ground with others who see the world differently.  Yet, I am hopeful about the concept of creating a new space- that third space that has untapped potential.

As you know, I did my project on trauma and stress in children in foster care systems.  I feel that  I have gained important insight on the perspectives the children and foster care parents, but I would now be willing to investigate the foster care system it self and the parents who no longer have rights to their children.  I want to know what is going on for them.  I did not come across any research from those who work in the foster care system or whose children got removed.  I am curious about the internal navigation of child welfare system.  Additionally,  I would like to investigate the perspectives of those in educational systems. Schools can be an ultimate healing place for children exposed to trauma, especially if the teachers and administrators are open to training.

Last of all, I truly enjoyed the discussions throughout the passed 16 weeks. Before writing this blog, I decided to review some of our discussions. I was truly amazed at the collective knowledge of our group.  I feel gratitude to have been part of this group. Thank you for your perspective and your passion.

Happy Spring ~  Let's spread our wings and FLY!

Robin

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